Keeping brothers and sisters together when they are adopted is something that Calderdale Council is keen to ensure.
Not only does it give siblings an extra feeling of support, stability and comfort to ease the transition into their new family; it can also be hugely rewarding for adopters.
Nationally there is a great need for adoptive families to come forward for sibling groups, and Calderdale is no different.
That’s why Calderdale Council is stepping up work to encourage more people to adopt brothers and sisters together in a stable, loving home.
Tom and Katie’s story*
Adoption gave Tom and Katie the complete family they had always wanted.
Eight years ago they adopted Anna, now age 11, and Dawn, now 8, three years later. Back then they said they would always consider adopting siblings, so when the opportunity arose earlier this year they didn’t hesitate to adopt James, Dawn’s biological brother, who is just over a year old.
“We’d asked Calderdale Council’s adoption team to contact us if the opportunity ever came up to adopt siblings.
“When they did, we were thrilled and so excited. We knew we had to be realistic, and thought carefully about whether it was right for us and the girls. We spoke to them and they were fully supportive. A Council social worker came to see us and together we decided that adopting James would be good for the whole family. She supported us to make sure the children were settled.
“We feel that it’s really important to keep biological siblings together – they have a blood connection and shared history that gives them extra support and stability.
“Although Anna isn’t related to Dawn and James she treats them as her own brother and sister, and in our eyes they are all siblings.
“Adopting a child is incredibly rewarding. They might not have had the best start in life, and you’re giving them a chance; the love and security they need to flourish. Seeing our children develop gives Katie and I a huge sense of pride.
“Bringing up children can be challenging, but the Council’s social workers are always there for us if we need advice. We found the adoption training really useful when we first started adopting, and when we went on the one-day course earlier this year we were able to share our experiences with the new adopters.
“Our advice to prospective adopters is to seriously consider adopting siblings if it’s right for them. Keeping brothers and sisters together makes a massive difference to their lives.”
*All names have been changed.
Interested in adoption?
Prospective adopters can also find out more at the Council’s adoption information evenings, held on the last Tuesday of every month in Halifax.
You can learn about the adoption process, ask questions on a one-to-one basis and talk to experienced adopters. The sessions are very popular, so please book a place by emailing firstname.lastname@example.org or calling 01422 266003.
Alternatively for more information complete an enquiry form at www.calderdale.gov.uk/adoption or call Carole